A dear friend of mine found himself in a situation where he had every right to assess and point blame.
A decision had been made that potentially was going to cost some pretty serious money.
I was so impressed by my friend, who said, "We didn't get it done but this is what We are going to do now."
Thats Noah's older two sons' approach to covering their father's drunken nakedness. It is Daniel's approach when interceding for Israel.
Daniel 9:3 Then I set my face toward the Lord God to make request by prayer and supplications, with fasting, sackcloth, and ashes. 4 And I prayed to the Lord my God, and made confession, and said, “O Lord, great and awesome God, who keeps His covenant and mercy with those who love Him, and with those who keep His commandments, 5 we have sinned and committed iniquity, we have done wickedly and rebelled, even by departing from Your precepts and Your judgments."
Who hasn't utterly blown it and really just wanted to not stand there alone?
Royal. We. It's easy to assess blame and point fingers: it's royal to share the burden.